if life hands you lemons.....

make lemonade.
Everything that god brings to you has a purpose. There is a reason behind it all. Take the time to enjoy and to learn from all that god blesses you with. Life is an experiment. We all now how it is going to end. But the experiments go on every day.
I see that in my children and in my labs.
Do you notice that I either refer to the 'stead as a home or a lab. And my garden is definitely a lab.